 Re: So confused!!! (long post)
Back when I first got married to Mrs. Truelove, our church required us to see a marriage counselor. At the time they were requiring it of all the couples that wanted to be married in that church. We went along with it very reluctantly at the time because we felt, like most people that we had a strong grasp on our marriage and that it wasn't needed. It was four sessions long for about an hour each.
I was amazed. The counselling was actually quite enjoyable. It might just have been our counselor, but the guy really did well at showing us some key points in building a strong foundation for our marriage.
So, if someone I knew was thinking of counselling as an option, I would encourage them to do so. It won't hurt, and if you go into it with an open mind, you might learn a little about marriage and each other as well.
Mr. Truelove
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