[hotingreenville]

Wow you are a better women than me. I am in a relationship where only the woman plays with other women. We consider ourselves soft swap. We will have sex together infront of others though. I would never do anything without my husband being around. He has to approve of everything I do otherwise it doesn't happen. He also has to approve of who I am with. If he doesn't like the other girl it is not going to work. If he ever came to me and told me he didn't want me to participate anymore than I would respect that and stop. Relationships are hard and you have to both be on the same page when swinging. It could ruin a good relationship. It sounds like you are a strong women and have been through alot. I hope that you can resolve your issues but if you don't feel comfortable with what is going on you should get out. I myself don't see how a marriage or a relationship could work with one swinging (or cheating) and the other not being involved in anyway. Stick to you guns and don't let anyone just mow you down. I am here for ya.