[mstabbikat]

This is my first post. I have been here for awhile and read many other posts. I was most pleased when the Poly Forum was created. My husband and I got involved in swinging about a year and a half ago. We were one of those looking for more than just sex. We were looking for other people to have as friends as well as lovers. Well for us, we found more than we could have ever hoped for. Neither of us had ever heard of polyamory. We did find a wonderful group of friends, but as unbelievable bonus we now have new family members. There are 2 other couples we have become extremely close with and we all consider ourselves family. We don't all live under the same roof at this time, but who knows what the future might bring. We are much closer with one of the couples and the 4 of us refer to each other as husbands & wives. I now look back over my life and can see the signs leading me to where I am today. At this time I don't know what I would do without my new family, they have stood by my husband and I through some very tough times lately. They have never wavered in their love for us and we have all become closer.

tabbi