 Re: Swinging with friends?
We once hooked up with a couple that we were friendly with...not close friends, but people we saw regularly in social settings...and it was a disaster. They had never done anything like that before, and didn't know how to handle it afterwards. The next time we saw them, the other wife was all over me like I was her husband...in front of VERY vanilla friends. We finally had to sit her down and tell her that what she was doing was not acceptable in public...to which she took great offense. It was a mess, and we will never do that again. Our motto is now...make friends of swingers, not swingers of friends. I don't know who made that saying up, but it sure works for us. We have another couple that we are very close friends with, and they have a strong suspicion that we swing...we know that by some of the "hinting" comments and questions. My wife has the hots for the guy in a big way, but we've learned our lesson and just won't go there with close friends again.
Your experience sounds like the stars were all aligned for the four of you. Hopefully, your friendship will only grow from here, and you won't have to deal with the issues we had to deal with. Good luck!!
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