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Originally Posted by mike big well i'm still trying to figure things out between us, but we tend to have pretty erotic sex and on one occasion she told me that she would love to be gang banged by about 5 different guys while i watch. now it was erotic and i came hard while we were having sex, but i dont know if i'm comfortable with 5 different guys. she tells me she wants to be used like trash and fucked hard till her pussy is sore.
I've decided that we can go to a swingers party and go from there, but that i would rather take it slow, maybe a couple and us.
she also mentioned that i would love to be fucked by two or three women at the same time, well i do agree with that. she is willing fto let me try it with another couple first and then go from there. But not sure if im ready for the gang bang yet. what do you guys think |
Personally, I am in the boat with your gf. I think I would like to have a gangbang. Damn near had one too, but some of the guys were actually a bit uneasy by the fact that my (now ex-) husband would be involved. wft? Needless to say, it didn't pan out.
Now, this is just my pov...but there is a time and a place for the lovey dovey stuff....and then there are times you just want to be used and fucked. Some people are into the being used aspect, and it can be very hot.
Obviously, you seem warm to the idea of having more than one female attend to you. Are you uncomfortable with the idea of the number she has presented, would it be more acceptable for you with 3 or 4 guys? Or is it something a little more deeply rooted, like nice girls shouldn't want something like that and you will think less of her if it happens? Not meaning to offend, but some of us were raised in a fairly conservative household and inital attitudes about sex are fostered there and can carry over, even when you are involved in a different lifestyle.
Good luck figuring out your comfort level with the idea. Your gf obviously feels comfortable enough with you to express some of (for lack of a better term) less mainstream fantasies.
Maria