 Re: So confused!!! (long post)
I think it is great that you are able to talk.
Everyone else has covered what I thought.
Swinging is never going to fix a relationship, if there is not a strong foundation of love, trust, communication and willingness on both parts to participte, then everything is going to fall apart very quickly. Before anyone should enter into the swinging lifestyle they need to make sure that their relationship is strong. So even if you are thinking about it for the right reasons, you have to deal with the problems first. If I were in your posision I would forget about swinging and focus on if you want to save your relationship, and if you do, how to go about doing that.
I hope things work out for you.
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