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Old 11-21-2006, 12:15 PM   #2 (permalink)
Tybee Swing
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Default Re: Whats after great sex protocol?

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Originally Posted by crazy4u
We meet a couple about a month ago and this past weekend had our first encounter with them, it was great!!! We all agree that we would enjoy doing this again as a group, we couldn't of asked for a better couple to connect with.

Anyways my question is this, when you meet a couple that this go well whats the protocol for asking them to meet up again, we don't want to seem pushy or aggressive but it was so much fun. So, how do you deal with a couple that could become regular play partners without anyone becoming suffocated.

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Hi! We follow up with a note (email) expressing what a wonderful time we had with them. If we are looking forward to seeing them again, we tell them so. If it's mutual, they'll reply back soon and will let you know they had a great time and that they're looking forward to seeing you again, too. At this point, you know you're not suffocating them, and they're just as much looking forward to next time, as you are.

Keep the communications back-and-forth equally. Don't write 2-3 times to their one time...make sense? If they're as interested as you are, it won't be long at all before you're setting the next date.
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