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Old 11-21-2006, 07:43 AM   #15 (permalink)
pagan-lovers
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Default Re: So confused!!! (long post)

Your husband definately has some major issues, which you have no control over. I am amazed by the number of women who stay with a bad apple in hopes of fixing him, or think all men are cheaters, so I'll just put up with the one I have. I agree with the people who suggested counseling for the both of you.
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Originally Posted by mnsnen
Needless to say, he fell in love with a good girl. I have old fashioned morals and values, however, I am a very open minded person and did not judge him for his desires.

Because I am a "good girl" he has always felt guitly for the way he is.
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Originally Posted by mnsnen
But the more I thought about it, the more ok I became.
Actaully a little excited by the idea.

What you can work on is yourself, figure out where you stand. The quotes above represent confusion to me.

Myself I don't do ultimatums. Give me an ultimatum and you will see the rebel in me real fast.
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