We even asked the people hosting this about trying to do group reservations for dinner before going to a loud club and the idea was shot down. Call me weird, but even if you are just looking for people to play with, getting to know one another needs to be in the picture.
The Mrs. and I have discussed the fact that we are attracted by personality as much as looks. One of the prettiest ladies there, who's husband had been talking to us before the meet n greet, was nearly impossible to engage in any conversation, after that we were less than interested. Another couple I wouldn't have given a second look on
(insert favorite hook-up site here) seemed fun and very nice. Most of the people there I couldn't give you there names. the club was about 70% swingers that night and most people just sat there. Thank goodness we had LOL_OMG with us, they are always fun.
I guess the Board meet-up had the best of both, beautiful people with great personalities as well. I didn't go to the Swingersboard Ohio Meet-up to hook-up, but after attending, we haven't ruled anyone out either
Mr.PL