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Chicup · 11-17-2006, 10:31 AM

Personally I view couples that need an MFM to start no different than the ones who need a FMF to start. In fact I'd be willing to bet that far more couples(husbands) start out looking for the FMF than MFM but they never get anywhere, where as MFM's are not nearlly as difficult to arrange.

I don't think easing either member 'into' it is a good idea as a rule. What can happen is that perhaps she will enjoy her MFM but that doesn't mean she will feel better about the husband being with another woman. We have seen such couples here before.

So if your turn on is mainly MFM thats fine but if you really want to be swinger with other couples, I'd say go for couples first. It can take more time to arrange as finding a single horny guy isn't exactly difficult, but it may be worth it in the long run and you can slay your jealousy demons together.

11-17-2006, 10:31 AM	#13 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	Re: Easier to start with MMF? Personally I view couples that need an MFM to start no different than the ones who need a FMF to start. In fact I'd be willing to bet that far more couples(husbands) start out looking for the FMF than MFM but they never get anywhere, where as MFM's are not nearlly as difficult to arrange. I don't think easing either member 'into' it is a good idea as a rule. What can happen is that perhaps she will enjoy her MFM but that doesn't mean she will feel better about the husband being with another woman. We have seen such couples here before. So if your turn on is mainly MFM thats fine but if you really want to be swinger with other couples, I'd say go for couples first. It can take more time to arrange as finding a single horny guy isn't exactly difficult, but it may be worth it in the long run and you can slay your jealousy demons together.