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Originally Posted by JacobSky Being a single male that has been in mfm threesomes with a couple, maybe I can share one more perspective.
First off, having sex with a man's wife while he watches or joins in with pleasuring her is very exciting. Yes, the purely physical side of it is a major part of the satisfaction, but not all of it for me. I get much of my satisfaction in a mfm threesome for playing an important role in a woman's fantasy. You see, I have always gotten really turned on by women's fantasies and the stories of their fulfillment. I've noticed in many (but not all) swingers ads that they are looking to have similiar fantasies fulfilled. The well endowed single male, the elusive bi female, the younger male, the orgie, the gang bang, and the friendly party couple are the most common fantasy roles that I've seen over many years of reading. The only one that I fit in at this time is the younger male role. I don't know what I'll do once I'm no longer in my twenties, but I hope to be married and be the husband getting to watch by then. Actually, my biggest fantasies involve me watching a woman that I love have sex with a well endowed male or with another woman. So now, intead I enjoy fitting into the mfm experiences. I will admit, I have some new hot erotic ideas that I've yet to fulfill in mfm threesomes with me being the single guy. At first, it was a fantasy just to be in a threesome, now I want to try various positions, places, ideas, etc....
Just as an aside, since I've mentioned swingers seeking fantasy fulfillment, I've noticed that newer couples seek fantasy fulfillment more than couples that have been swinging for a longer period of time. Experienced couples are more likely to seek singles or couples that they can be friends with outside of the bedroom as well. It makes sense that newer couples seek ideal fantasy lovers at the begginings. I think that the experienced couples still keep an eye out for rare experiences, but experienced couples usually look more at the person "as a whole person" than newer couples.
So, there's more to enjoying a mfm, even for the single male, than just having sex with a wife. At least in my case there is more to it.
Oh, about the "stunt dick" title. I wouldn't get upset over being referred to as that, but I'd hope to mean more to the couple than that. I'd like to be seen as a friend. |