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Old 11-14-2006, 11:58 AM   #13 (permalink)
MoonLightKiss
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Default Re: Puzzled

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Originally Posted by ViSexual
But, you admit that a blow job is a blow job and it felt OK so why not give your wife the turn-on of seeing you being sucked again?

And, if this gay friend agrees then don't worry about 'what's in it for him'. Hey, he might have a thing about giving head to a straight guy or something. Just consider yourself the one who has two people to please you!
I agree with LM. Alot of sex has to do with the psychological end. He has made it clear that he is not into MM play, and to encourage him to do it anyway IMHO makes those who do no better than the wife that tricked him.

This thread got me to thinking though. On many other threads men have come here asking how to push, manipulate, demand, coerce, and get the woman drunk enough to do what HE wants. Most all of us here have hanged and flamed these men, and flat out told em what we thought of men with that way of thinking. I see no difference between a man being devious and a woman being devious. Swinging is about honesty, flat out across the board. There is not a set of rules for the little boys, and a different set of rules for the little girls. So ViSexual, I strongly disagree. This wife had no business doing what she did, nor should we encourage him to "take one for the team". Especially when so many of us would not do so.
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