[MoonLightKiss]

Originally Posted by comm

Newbie here. Recently, my wife and I met a couple. We had been with them once before and hooked up again. Nice people, good times. seemed perfect for us. Anyway, we got together and things quickly got naked. Me and his were 69, with her on top. My wife was knealt on the floor sucking both me and him. After a while, his wife got off of me and I looked down and saw that he was sucking my dick. Don't know how long he had been doing it, but my wife was holding my dick and he was going at it. It was startling. I'm not gay and have no interest in men. Luckily, as I sat up, he quit and started kissing her. From there on out, nothing else like that happened, I just couldn't get the image of him sucking me out of my head, and it was kind of a turn off for the rest of the evening.

Problem. Afterwards, my wife told me over and over how hot it made her to watch another man sucking my cock. I would do anything to please her, but that is just not for me. She has a gay friend and he flirts with me on occasion, but I don't reciprocate so I'm sure he knows it's going nowhere. I'm polite to him, but have made it clear I like women. Anyway, she has said she would like to have her gay friend join us. I enjoy watching her with other men and women, but I don't think I could even fake interest in another man to please her. I told her I am not turned on by men. She asked if it felt good when the other man was sucking my dick. I said yes, but I thought it was her. She also says that her friend would be happy just to suck my dick if that's all I wanted to do. Well, if that's the case, what the heck else is he going to do the rest of the evening? I don't want to suck or fuck him and don't want him to fuck me and it just doesn't excite me to see a man sucking my dick. She says its no different from when she first went down on a woman. Well, I'm sorry. It is. I know from the way she talked before that she had always fantasized about it. But to me, a man with a man just doesn't doesn't flip my pickle. She says she is not going to pressure me, but thinks I would enjoy myself and she also wants to get back together with our new couple again. I love fucking her and watching him fuck my wife, but this guy/guy thing is not cutting it.

Where to start first. You have made it very clear to us by the statements in bold you are not into MM play. I am assuming you have made it clear to her. The fact that she had this guy sucking on you anyway shows, to me at least, a lack of respect. Had I done this to my hubby (which I would never do) needless to say after all was said and done, our swinging days would be over. For us it would have been a blatant and clear showing of disrespect. Again this is assuming you have made it as clear to her as you have to us.

This is obviously something you need to work out. Make sure the boundaries are clear from now on, if they were not before. Explain it to her just like you did us, or better yet have her come here and read it. But in my opinion what she did was a big fat NO NO.