I understand your wife's fantasy....however, she's being very pushy with you. Actions speak louder than words...she can say she's not pressuring you, but she is! It sounds like she's trying to talk you into it, including wanting you to get with her gay friend. Your telling her that you're not interested
once should satisfy her, she should not keep trying to talk you into it.
I'm very surprised that the bi man you were with just sprung it on you that way. I wonder, would he have done it to you like that unless he was encouraged to do so by your wife? Maybe she stopped sucking you when you couldn't see what was happening (a woman on your face), and
encouraged that guy to take you in his mouth? Offered it to him non-verbally? After all, she was holding it while he was sucking it. If your wife did encourage this, the other man would have thought this must be okay with you, too. If this is the case, I don't blame the man. The best case scenario would have been if you were respected and talked to about this, first! Nobody should be manipulated into having some sort of sex he or she clearly does not want. I think your wife is pushy and manipulative.
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Originally Posted by comm She says its no different from when she first went down on a woman. Well, I'm sorry. It is. I know from the way she talked before that she had always fantasized about it. |
I agree with you. HUGE difference...she fantasized about being with a woman before she did it, knew she wanted it, and she was a willing participant when it happened!
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Originally Posted by comm She says she is not going to pressure me, but thinks I would enjoy myself and she also wants to get back together with our new couple again. I love fucking her and watching him fuck my wife, but this guy/guy thing is not cutting it. |
She can call it what she likes, but pressure is still pressure. She needs to back off. (Why not have her read this thread?)
About that couple: you enjoyed them a lot and they seemed perfect for you, before this happened. What if you just tell them clearly that the bi-guy stuff will NOT be happening again, and see if they are respectful enough to honor your wishes and go on from here?
Meanwhile, see if your wife is respectful enough to stop forcing things on you that she knows you do not want.
Please let us know how it goes....best wishes to you!