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Old 11-13-2006, 06:52 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Ah, you are a much calmer guy than I am, of course, my wife would have never let him go there. Had I been in your position though, the guy would have needed an ambulance after I got through with him, and I am not normally a violent person.

To answer your question though, if you aren't into it then don't do it. I have never seen it turn out good when one partner is doing something to please the other that they would never do on their own. That is why so many truly bi women have so few good FF encounters in the lifestyle, a lot of women (in my experience most women) are just doing it because it turns their husband on, not because they like it. We have a couple of Bi-female friends that constantly complain about this. So my guess is, if you go ahead and do it to please your wife, it won't be any fun for you or the guy you do it with. Hell, in the end, it probably won't even be any good for your wife.
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