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elfman36 · 11-13-2006, 09:45 AM

I have a question for all here:
It seems the MMF experience is more popular than ever these days.
When a wife is a trebidatious or apprehensive about experiencing the lifestyle, is it easier to begin with a MMF to ease her into things?
I'm not talking about tricking her, confusing her, or seducing her with another lover and thereby clouding her mind sexually, but just letting her try this out before moving into more advanced scenarios.
My thinking is once experiencing it and seeing that sex can be just sex and not always a "running in a meadow of daisies" moment that most are programmed from birth into believing, maybe the "slow to go" ones can dip their toes in the water and see that it's just fine!
This is what we did (although actually it was her and another couple while I sat out and just watched) and worked wonderfully.
Curious as to other's opinions....

Cheers,

Elf

11-13-2006, 09:45 AM	#1 (permalink)
elfman36 Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 15 Location: Texas and Arizona Status: Couple	Easier to start with MMF? I have a question for all here: It seems the MMF experience is more popular than ever these days. When a wife is a trebidatious or apprehensive about experiencing the lifestyle, is it easier to begin with a MMF to ease her into things? I'm not talking about tricking her, confusing her, or seducing her with another lover and thereby clouding her mind sexually, but just letting her try this out before moving into more advanced scenarios. My thinking is once experiencing it and seeing that sex can be just sex and not always a "running in a meadow of daisies" moment that most are programmed from birth into believing, maybe the "slow to go" ones can dip their toes in the water and see that it's just fine! This is what we did (although actually it was her and another couple while I sat out and just watched) and worked wonderfully. Curious as to other's opinions.... Cheers, Elf