The Swingers Board - View Single Post - IF MARRIED~DON'T SWING...IT CAN BE HORRIBLE & RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE

DBL D · 11-12-2006, 12:16 PM

Ya Know...All of us should have been concerned about the health of our relationships first and foremost. Most of us would never want our partner to do anything she/he didn't want to get into. Most of us have made a commitment to each other for life. Most of us have developed those communication tricks to help us figure things out.

Most of us truly love each other and want only the most happiness that can be fit into 70 or so years of living!

OP...What was the problem? Did one of you freak out at something? Or did the other couple? Did someone break a rule or two? Did you get caught by the vanilla public? What made it such a disaster? Jealousy? When you say that you have found that all you need is each other, I believe you. You can't compare our positive outcomes with yours. It isn't logical.

If you want to register and respond to us and be a member of this society, there are many who would welcome that.

And welcome to SuandBud...you seem well grounded.

Now...if I can just figure out how to get off of this swimmers block!...

Male D

11-12-2006, 12:16 PM	#48 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: IF MARRIED~DON'T SWING...IT CAN BE HORRIBLE & RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE Ya Know...All of us should have been concerned about the health of our relationships first and foremost. Most of us would never want our partner to do anything she/he didn't want to get into. Most of us have made a commitment to each other for life. Most of us have developed those communication tricks to help us figure things out. Most of us truly love each other and want only the most happiness that can be fit into 70 or so years of living! OP...What was the problem? Did one of you freak out at something? Or did the other couple? Did someone break a rule or two? Did you get caught by the vanilla public? What made it such a disaster? Jealousy? When you say that you have found that all you need is each other, I believe you. You can't compare our positive outcomes with yours. It isn't logical. If you want to register and respond to us and be a member of this society, there are many who would welcome that. And welcome to SuandBud...you seem well grounded. Now...if I can just figure out how to get off of this swimmers block!... Male D
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