[wifes_sex_slave]

For MRS and I, we have been to our local club a small number of times and have met both new and experienced couples. (For those of you who have read us before know that we still are Swing Lifestyle virgins) We were stood up by a supposed experienced couple and at first kinda soured our taste a bit but quickly dismissed that as just rudeness and kept returning to the club.

Now saying that we have met all sorts of couples, we have noticed that for the most part it really has not much to do with how experienced you are in the lifestyle as it is your attitude towards others.

MRS and I are very easy going people, a little shy (likely the reason for our "virginity") but are not going to dismiss any opportunity just because "they" have never done it or "they" have been with everyone in the club. We are patient and will, in time, find our niche.

This subject (along with the other thread from the experienced side) have caused some hard feelings from both sides of the fence, which we find rather unnecessary as we all have our opinions on the matter.

For us, as long as the other couple is nice to talk to (not necessarily attractive - looks aren't all the person is) and patient enough to take the time to play with us, we will of course, be the same. Remember the old antic, "people will respond to how they are treated, equally" goes a long way. It's a mind set.

Whether experienced or not - if you are kind and are treated kind and have a fun conversation with another couple, chances are (unless they repulse you for some reason) you will consider getting to know them better and perhaps play fantastic together.