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ohash01 · 11-12-2006, 10:16 AM

Scott - give her time. If she's TOYING with the idea...she's not COMPLETELY against it. But as a girlfriend...I am saying do NOT egg her on or prod her. You've dropped the little kernel of thought into her head...she's probably thinking about it when you don't know that she's thinking about it. There are issues and fears with it that she'll have to work past herself.

It took me a LONG time to:
1) discuss with j. how he felt about it and explain to him my feelings
2) work through it in my head and decide it was definately something i was interested in
3) meet a female who was also interested, that i was attracted to AND liked as a person
4) get all 4 of us together and talk about it.

And you know what...we STILL haven't "done it" yet...because we're in a nice place being buddies who flirt and are attracted to one another and when it happens, we want it to be "real". We don't want to feel like we HAVE to play with one another. And this is among 4 people that are totally on the up and up and know what all the others are thinking. Unlike your little group where the men are playing with the heads of the women.

11-12-2006, 10:16 AM	#15 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: how to get 2 girls together for there first time? Scott - give her time. If she's TOYING with the idea...she's not COMPLETELY against it. But as a girlfriend...I am saying do NOT egg her on or prod her. You've dropped the little kernel of thought into her head...she's probably thinking about it when you don't know that she's thinking about it. There are issues and fears with it that she'll have to work past herself. It took me a LONG time to: 1) discuss with j. how he felt about it and explain to him my feelings 2) work through it in my head and decide it was definately something i was interested in 3) meet a female who was also interested, that i was attracted to AND liked as a person 4) get all 4 of us together and talk about it. And you know what...we STILL haven't "done it" yet...because we're in a nice place being buddies who flirt and are attracted to one another and when it happens, we want it to be "real". We don't want to feel like we HAVE to play with one another. And this is among 4 people that are totally on the up and up and know what all the others are thinking. Unlike your little group where the men are playing with the heads of the women.