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Edit to say - Agree with above post - we must have been writing at the same time....


You need her to make the decision to go from 'probably' to 'yes'. And she should talk to the other gf too... presuming your buddy has already talked to his gf and she has given her 'yes'. Meanwhile the four of you can go out and possibly all four of you could talk about it. But Spoo is right - the decision is hers, not yours.

A drink to calm the nerves is one thing - drinking a bunch is another. We try to remain sober whenever we swing - not to say we are not drinking at all. But if one of us gets drunk, the other has veto power for anything that may start, continue, or progress.

Nothing wrong with moving slowly!

Sarah