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Originally Posted by scott17201 i agree but i dont think my gf would regret it. |
How about the other girlfriend?
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Originally Posted by scott17201 the alcohol would get her relaxed enough to do it. |
Alcohol relaxes you enough to be comfortable in a social situation. But when you need alcohol to have sex when you otherwise wouldn't, I am not sure that it is a wise thing...
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Originally Posted by scott17201 weve talked about it and havent been drinking and she said shed probably do it. |
Yes - but did she talk to the other girlfriend about whether or not she'd be cool with it? Have the four of you guys sat down and talked about all of this?
There is still one girlfriend involved in this "let's get 'em drunk" scenario that needs to be considered. I don't know... The fact that they are saying "I don't know... Maybe... If I were drunk" and leaving the rest to a couple of boyfriends to figure out just isn't the way I'd advise that you go about it.
My honest advice (and that is what you asked for) is for the four of you to go out to dinner and discuss it like adults. Then, if they need a drink or two to get comfortable and relaxed, cool. You really, really, really don't want to have either of the girls wake up feeling like they've made a mistake. Right?
You want them to enjoy it - this is for them, right? Not just for you and your buddy to "WOO-HOO" about? Get them involved in the discussion and go from there.
If they aren't ready to do that - then they aren't ready period.
Spoomonkey