well,i can see guests point,but i was married before and all he did was cheat,i was jealous and all.this time around things are different,we agree on everything before hand,we have our agreement about how things will be.and i have to say,our marriage is very strong.we have no arguements and when we have a slight disagreement,we talk it out.so maybe it's not for everyone.but for the ones it works for,so be it.our marriage is stronger than we thought it would ever be
