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If you are swinging without your spouse's knowledge and consent leave us alone, we very well may tell on you. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WE DON'T WANT TO KNOW YOU!
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I feel I should qualify the statement above from my own experience and point of view. I personally know the pain a cheating partner can cause and believe me it is not just about the sex. My ex wife did this back in 95 - 96 and I have still not fully recovered. My son has grown up going back and forth between two houses because of this. We have not had the financial resources to provide him with as much as we could of had if we were still working as a team. Lots of anger and recrimination and every relationship I have been in since that ugly specter hangs like a cloud preventing me from ever completely trusting anyone ever again.
I never, ever, ever want to be party to causing the kind of hurt I have experienced to anyone and especially to the inocent partner and childeren of a cheating spouse. Sex no matter how good is not worth this price. Cheating also hurts more than the partner, it's reach also takes in the family, reletives and freinds of the cheater.
I put in the
"we very well may tell on you." part because this is what a cheater fears the most, exposure. Once out in the open they can no longer have thier cake and eat it too. Hopefully it will make someone cheating on thier spouse think twice about cheating on us with a false ad and misrepresenting themselves!