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Old 11-10-2006, 12:58 PM   #20 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Default Re: Swinging or Cheating??

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Originally Posted by PaJoKo
And I also feel, if that other couple knows he is cheating...they are wrong too. No matter how fun it may be. Because what goes around--comes around. Someday it could happen to you.
I agree with this 100%!

Thanks for sharing.

I have to say, I am worried about your introduction to swinging and I worry about his initial approach to the lifestyle, sneaking behind your back. Please go slow and be very cautious and wise. You have started off on the wrong foot (I think you'd agree) and you definitely want to make sure you are very secure in his motivations.

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you two.

I wouldn't have even tried to swing without Mrs Spoo - and now having been involved for almost four years, I know it would not have been worth it. Sure - I love swinging (check out my post count ) but everything about "us" is so much better than even the great experiences we've had.

It is a shame that anyone would risk their marriage for something like this...

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