I wanted to reply to this because this sorta hits close to home. My husband has always had this fantasy to have us swing with another couple, or (the all time biggest of all men fantasies) me with another woman. He went behind my back and got onto a sex website with personals and hooked up with all these people. I found it on his computer and was SO upset. He had several emails with couples looking for a guy, and I sorta think he was going togo meet them. Well after a major confrontation with him, we decided if this is what he truly wants to pursue--he should include me too!! I figured it would be better with me there, than him meeting without me. I checked online and read alot about swinging and did some soul searching to see if this is what I'd like to do. I decided I'd try. And we both decided if I hated it, we'd quit. He'd quit! too! I truly feel, if you are a couple, and one of you goes out and swings without the other knowing about it, it is definitely cheating. And I also feel, if that other couple knows he is cheating...they are wrong too. No matter how fun it may be. Because what goes around--comes around. Someday it could happen to you. Thanks for listening...
