OK, take Webster's Dictionary for example. Someone has been given the final authority on what the actual definition is going to be listed and that is the final say so to speak unless it is somehow officially changed. Naturally we all have our own opinions and variations, etc. But what would your generalized overall summary should you be writing the official definition. There is no right or wrong answer, it was a food for thought, change of topic type thread for curiousity.
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