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freekynme · 11-08-2006, 06:45 PM

For our first time hubby & I were lucky to find a very caring couple who were experienced & took the time to meet with us. While we were newbies as a couple, we both had swinging experience from previous relationships, so things were fine for us. This couple took us to our first swingers club & basically introduced us to their friends & invited us to house parties & get togethers & everything. They were very patient & easy going which made our first experience together enjoyable. So I dont think a couple's or person's level of experience or lack there of should be the deciding factor in whether someone plays with them, but what I do think is that if everything feels right & everyone's on the same page then do it. Although I can understand why vets dont want to get involved in with newbies, I think it is a bit unfair to assume that all newbies are a waste of time, source of drama, etc. Just my 2 cents on the subject.

11-08-2006, 06:45 PM	#9 (permalink)
freekynme Active Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 72 Location: Germany Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:se_ga_deviants	Re: Newbies: Who would you rather play with? For our first time hubby & I were lucky to find a very caring couple who were experienced & took the time to meet with us. While we were newbies as a couple, we both had swinging experience from previous relationships, so things were fine for us. This couple took us to our first swingers club & basically introduced us to their friends & invited us to house parties & get togethers & everything. They were very patient & easy going which made our first experience together enjoyable. So I dont think a couple's or person's level of experience or lack there of should be the deciding factor in whether someone plays with them, but what I do think is that if everything feels right & everyone's on the same page then do it. Although I can understand why vets dont want to get involved in with newbies, I think it is a bit unfair to assume that all newbies are a waste of time, source of drama, etc. Just my 2 cents on the subject.