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Old 11-08-2006, 01:28 PM   #7 (permalink)
NandTfromCA
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Default Re: Newbies: Who would you rather play with?

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Originally Posted by Brian&Mandy
I can believe what's being said (the other topic like this and others that seem to be "I do X, so I'm holier than thou doing Y"), but it just pisses me off and is a major reason we're still considered newbies as it's an overwhelming prevelant attitude.
Maybe it’s a regional thing (Wyoming vs CA). From my perspective, prejudice against newbies is not the prevailing attitude.

- There are those that don’t meet with newbies because they are afraid of having their time wasted.
- There are those that seek out newbies because they want “fresh meet”.
- And there are those that take each person as they are (caveat- comfort level factors into "taking people as they are" and comfort level and experience level tend to be somewhat proportional)

I could be wrong but I would guess most of the swinger population is made up of the later.

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