[Pinmonkey]

Apparently we were taking the plunge into swinging the same way a 5 year old gets in a cold pool in June. First dip the toe until it feels warm. Then another toe.. then another... etc etc. We were just getting comfortable with the idea of having sex with other people, and had a couple of inexperiences when we decided we really really wanted to have a baby. Well due to circumstances this process took ALOT more than we realized it would. Then it happened, she was pregnant and put a lock on everything. About a month ago our little miracle was born. But now she's not happy with the way things are. Her boobs are sagging a little more than before. She has bright red stretch marks on her belly that she's embarrassed about, and the hormones are making her crazy.

Understand, I know that this is all normal, and will eventually go away, and it's still relatively early to even be thinking of this, but is there anything that I can do to help her? Do stretch marks eventually go away? Will she ever be sane again? Will her body go back to "normal"? Will we be able to get a babysitter for the night? (It sounds like the end of an episode of "Soap" doesn't it? lol)