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Old 11-06-2006, 04:29 PM   #28 (permalink)
ShellyM
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Default Re: Why am I being hit on by cheaters??!!!

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Originally Posted by lickudry
What the hell is the difference? Whether the wife or husband is there if you are not doing it with your own wife or husband you are cheating on them. So what the f****. Maybe some of us married men would like to experience some sexual freedom, fulfill fantasies that our wives won't.
I wouldn't say that now. Now, if I were to want to play with a woman, and Jay said "okay, but I'll be present to watch", then I don't see that as cheating at all. He is present and consentual. Cheating is going behind his back and sneaking around. So, there are situations where only 1 partner has sex, but I would not categorize that as cheating.
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