Uh, yes lol.
Its not that the men are "ugly"........I think that at 34 years of age I just kind of know what turns me on, and what doesn't. Thats why its good to meet someone before you completely say NO. I have met men that just have a sexuality to them, I don't know how to describe it. They weren't all that physically attractive, but for some reason my eyes go back to them and they hold my interest. AND, alot of people just dont photograph well.. Jay is a very handsome and sexy man. But for some reason, he photographs and looks like a doofus (

baby)! He even admits to this. However, when you meet him you see that he is anything but a doofus. So, don't hesitate to just meet for dinner and good conversation.