 Re: Mismatched couples
tribbles, I like your perspectives about "real" people. This is another thing that I agree with you two on.
I agree with telly2 also, I've seen lots of mismatches among vanilla people also, but it is most always the woman that looks like "too much" for her guy.
Upon first reading this, I wanted to say "your seeing the prevelence of average males that have fantasies of watching their wife with an assumed superior male". After being around swinging for a couple of years, I still see that motive as a common thread with a few couples, but most here are looking for equal couples for just "good sex", and maybe friendship. That shows the level of experience and maturity in swinging of lots of members here. I'm not saying that many of you wouldn't jump at a potential partner that seems to fit a fantasy, but you get where I'm coming from.
Even though I'm single and don't have to find a balanced couple, like tribbles, I feel most comfortable with somewhat average people.
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