This used to really bother us too, but then we started to notice that often times the girl of a couple we meet will be really into me and the guy not into Mrs. GT or, even more often

, the guy is really into Mrs. GT and the women seems a little cool on me. We finally came to the conclusion that it is just really hard to get four people that all find each other attractive. Now, every time this thought pops into my head I just think, "Yep, and someone is probably looking at us right now thinking that one of us is hot and the other is a dud."
It would be nice to be able to mix-and-match sometimes though, wouldn't it?