The Swingers Board - View Single Post - I want the wife, but my wife isn't ready to do the husband

lookingfornow · 11-02-2006, 05:22 PM

I would never do full where we both weren't doing full swap. One of our hard and fast rules is that we play equally or not at all. I wouldn't do it even if other wife was OK with it and so was my hubby.

This is a path to disaster (in my opinion). She will be angry and then will feel like she can't trust you. Soon she will lose all interest in any sexual play with others (claiming that it is because it reminds her that she cannot trust you). Next thing you know, no more play at all and you will be wondering what happened.

If she is going to come around, it will be with a couple that she feels the same interest in going full with that you do. Look for that couple and get over the fact that you have this "chemistry" with this woman.

11-02-2006, 05:22 PM	#11 (permalink)
lookingfornow Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 191 Location: N.E.Ohio Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:lookingfornow	Re: What to do!!! I would never do full where we both weren't doing full swap. One of our hard and fast rules is that we play equally or not at all. I wouldn't do it even if other wife was OK with it and so was my hubby. This is a path to disaster (in my opinion). She will be angry and then will feel like she can't trust you. Soon she will lose all interest in any sexual play with others (claiming that it is because it reminds her that she cannot trust you). Next thing you know, no more play at all and you will be wondering what happened. If she is going to come around, it will be with a couple that she feels the same interest in going full with that you do. Look for that couple and get over the fact that you have this "chemistry" with this woman.