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Originally Posted by good times It also might be that while we have had dozens of single guys approach Mrs. GT to meet them on the sly, I have never even heard of a woman doing it to a single guy before. |
I have. There are plenty of women out there looking to cheat and who better than a single guy who doesn't have any issues sleeping with another man's wife.
There was a situation this weekend at my local club where a single guy met upwith a couple. I have no idea how this came about since apparently the couple doesn't do single guys... and after an hour or so of her making otu with the guy the husband put an end to it. But it didn't end, the next day she approached the club hosts trying to get said single guy's contact info behind her hubby's back. So, yes it happens in swinging... and I'm sure there are just as many married women who aren't in swinging that are out there looking for men to cheat with - otherwise the personal ads sites that cater to that (cheating) demo wouldn't exist.
Women are by no means any better than men in these situations.
As for this thread. I didn't move it. I did consider moving it to the singles forum... which is actually where it originated...but I figured that both singles and couples deal with cheaters so it was a pretty open topic. Evidently, that is the same thought that the mods there had in moving it to General Swingers.
Now, let's try to give people the benefit of the doubt rather than assuming that everyone has an agenda. Maybe instead of questioning his motives we can have a decent conversation on the topic of cheaters (both male and female) who attempt to use swinger venues to cheat.