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Originally Posted by Chicup Well I think the unlikelihood of the situation, the unlikelihood of a single guy getting so pissed about it (even if I were single I'd be flattered more than pissed even if I wouldn't play with a cheater) but most importantly why post a photo of yourself with it for no apparent reason?
Its a 'see I get the lifestyle' and 'oh take a look at me to pm me' post  |
I believe his thread started in the Intro or Per Ads forum, I may have been the mod to move it here, but I don't recall. If Julie spots this thread she could find out where it origniated.
I will assume he is genuine, until I have other proof.
If he is new to an ad site, he is probably receiving lots of contacts...that's common when anyone joins a new site, whether you are a couple or single.
And if he is new to swinging, even if he has only had 5 contacts, 3 may be from married woman wanting to cheat. I've seen such profiles so I know they exist. How prolific they are may depend on the part of the country and the ad site.
SD mentions when he is "chatting" with women he discovers - to his disappointment - that they are looking for sex without telling their husband. In chatrooms and through IMing I imagine this "request from a cheater" could be prevelant. The woman in chat - if she even is a woman (we must all remember that some cyber rompers aren't who they say they are) - may only be living a fantasy that she would never live out.
And where does he say he has an Swing Lifestyle profile? Did I miss that?
I hope SD comes back and let's us know more about himself.
LM