[Menage_a_Trois]

We can understand your frustration and anger about this. Touching someone without asking first is rude and inappropriate, and that goes for both men and women. You need to ask whoever is in charge of the parties you go to if this is considered appropriate behavior at their parties. MOST clubs and parties frown on this and it is considered a BIG no no. There are a few clubs around here that some of the women seem to think that it is ok for them to touch or grope whenever they wish without asking, especially if it is another woman that they are touching. They think that because they are a woman it is ok.
A and P (Mrs. Ménage and the Other Mrs. Ménage) get upset whenever someone they do not know touches without asking first. And they both will rather quickly and bluntly tell them just how rude they are. Mr. Ménage is always a gentleman and NEVER touches a woman unless he has been given permission to do so first (even with women from couples we have played with).
If this were happening to us at a club or party, we would not hesitate to tell the rude person to knock it off and we would definitely let the person running the club or party what is going on. That is the only way to change that kind of behavior.
Hope this helps.
The Ménage’s