Spoo, thank you, I appreciate that. It got so bad the last time that I wondered if
I am the one that's wrong about this. About your story, I agree, it's just as bad for some random woman to come up on you and put her hands on you, too.
Brett, thank you, too. About giving a stern look or just walking away: I do walk away, but this is after it's happened. I'd rather be where it's not happening to start with.
The worst case was when I subtly removed the man's hands from me
three different times that night - he got the point, I knew it, because he later made some comment to his wife (half-joke) that I didn't seem to like him. On the 4th time (yes, he tried
again), he slid his finger up my butt-crack when I was slightly bent over the pool table. Yep, he reached up my skirt. This time, I turned around to him and we had words...but even then, I was being a lady and only said it loud enough for him and his wife to hear me. He got pissy, and angrily was talking to his wife about me right after that. The only word I caught was "bitch". They left soon after. The host told me they won't be invited back. But meanwhile, we should not have to put up with this crap! Even one time is one time too many, as far as I'm concerned.
Brett, you said maybe we're hanging with the wrong crowd. I think you're right, and even though many of our friends go to this house party, I think we're not going back. We're going to look elsewhere. We have to travel to get to real swinger's clubs, but I think that aside from one-on-one connections around home, we'll just have to travel on the few occasions we might be able to go.
Thanks for backing me on this, I feel better already.
