Wow Tybee, sounds like you're hanging with the wrong crowd

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never feel a woman up without her flirting and then coming on to me first. And even then, it's usually after she's felt me up

I must say, I haven't noticed Tam getting felt up much either(can't ask her right now). Well....other than our very first visit to a club quite some time ago. We mostly go to off-premise dances and have been to a few house parties. I honestly don't remember having this happen without us knowing the guy or couple pretty well first. And Tammy sure hasn't mentioned it.
As we don't have this happen, I've never really thought about how you'd guard against it. Perhaps a stern look, or just suddenly excusing yourself might get the point across. I'm curious as to how many others this happens to.
Brett