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Old 11-01-2006, 07:03 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Feeling up without asking: is this normal?

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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing
Isn't there a rule that you shouldn't touch someone sexually unless you get an invitation to do so?
In most clubs this is a rule - though I am not sure how house parties post, advertise or enforce their rules... Still you would think that it would be common snese that you just don't start grabbing someone who hasn't given you the "go ahead" to do so...

Whether that is verbal or obvious in a non-verbal way (men who can't read non-verbal cues probably ought to write this on their shirt so as not to make asses out of themselves).

Unfortunately their are always going to be morons in the lifestyle - and maybe they are the kind of guys who would never actually get a real invitation and they know it - so they wait until there is a suitable moment for them to make incredibly awkward...

I had a woman do this and it really pissed me off. I mean - I know better - and if I did it it would be clearly classless - but if a woman does it, I am just supposed to be flattered... She walked up and grabbed my cock (cute little blond actually, but still not acceptable). So I looked at her and said, "I guess that means I can do this..." And I grabbed her pussy through her skirt and smiled.

She got the picture and we've not spoken since.

Yeah - it happens and it does piss me off. But maybe the folks that do this are the types of folks who would never have anyone do this to them...

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