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JacobSky · 11-01-2006, 02:12 PM

Thanks Sarah, I'm glad people are reading my reply. I felt that it was too long, but I wanted to share many perspectives.

I want to admit that I can still see where pure recreational sex with others could have its place in my life. Yet, it being less frequent than poly relations would seem to reduce some safety risk, health etc...... And I could get my bareback satisfaction in the poly situation, and not mind as much wearing a condom with pure lust friends. I do like to wear a condom till trust is built and tests are taken in both situations, then going bare is ok with me.

Like stacycat mentioned earlier, recreational sex with swinging playmates may be more enjoyable for poly people when they have their emotional needs fullfilled by their poly relationships.

Some people that you will run into in life will only fit fantasy scenarios. They may not have the chemistry with you for more, so that is the type that you or your poly partner live out fantasies with.....and that's as emotional as things may get with that person. Their involvement in your life may fall anywheres in the spectrum between swinging and poly.

Yes, we don't always need to label relationships or ourselves, but I find that it helps to label things (relationships, ie..., poly, swing, friends with benefits) when describing your thoughts to others on the net.

11-01-2006, 02:12 PM	#24 (permalink)
JacobSky Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 254 Location: Beaver, OK Status: Single Male	Re: Are you Poly? Thanks Sarah, I'm glad people are reading my reply. I felt that it was too long, but I wanted to share many perspectives. I want to admit that I can still see where pure recreational sex with others could have its place in my life. Yet, it being less frequent than poly relations would seem to reduce some safety risk, health etc...... And I could get my bareback satisfaction in the poly situation, and not mind as much wearing a condom with pure lust friends. I do like to wear a condom till trust is built and tests are taken in both situations, then going bare is ok with me. Like stacycat mentioned earlier, recreational sex with swinging playmates may be more enjoyable for poly people when they have their emotional needs fullfilled by their poly relationships. Some people that you will run into in life will only fit fantasy scenarios. They may not have the chemistry with you for more, so that is the type that you or your poly partner live out fantasies with.....and that's as emotional as things may get with that person. Their involvement in your life may fall anywheres in the spectrum between swinging and poly. Yes, we don't always need to label relationships or ourselves, but I find that it helps to label things (relationships, ie..., poly, swing, friends with benefits) when describing your thoughts to others on the net.
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