[JacobSky]

I'm sorry about the length of that previous post. If that wasn't enough, I'm not finished.

I'd give a polyprimary relationship a go because it would still satisfy my urge to hold one woman above the rest, while I'm also held above other men in the areas of love and commitment. Some experts have argued that this arangement still shares the old "I own you" views, or that the primaries are still too insecure to completely let go and be on a level field with others. Regardless of that, I still desire to be treated a bit more special than the other lovers that my primary partner might have, therefore they would be secondary and not equal. Some may claim that such feelings have roots in monogamy, but I still desire to be charished above others.