MrsVan

TeamSoBe,

Wow! I am speechless...This was an incredible post and I have to agree with every part of what you have said. Like others that have posted here, I too have come from a relationship of cheating to work my ass off to get out of that relationship. I then found a relationship that is what I had been looking for. MrVan and I have spent every hour of every day for the past 7 years working on our relationship to build a strong foundation and to raise our children to learn what love is all about.

When MrVan and I first met, I had a really hard time with wanting to explore sex as I had not had the kind of sex life in my first marriage that I do with MrVan. But being able to be open, honest and all that goes into a relationship helped me to explore those sides of me that I have longed to release. And although MrVan loved me then for who I was, when I let go of the wild side and we moved forward with the lifestyle, he loves me so much more than I would have ever imagined. Therefore, why would I allow a married man who cannot be honest with himself and his family to come into my relationship in hopes to get inside me? I disagree with the way cheaters think and I will not allow someone to portray themselves as a single to get in my pants when they obviously have bigger issues.

Again, great thread!!!

MrsVan