Basically catching fire with the notion of swinging 6 months ago, approaching my wife with the idea, and then my impatient self making it a topic of basic conversation with my wife for 2 straight months. She certainly wasn't averse to the idea and we even came up with some basic ground rules for whenever that first time came. But after 2 months, and I can't articulate it very well, the daily conversations seemed disingenuous from my end. No doubt we had felt the enhanced level of communication we both had created, but this had to be expanded and transcended into other areas of our lives together. The level of enhanced communication and discovery after 20 years of marriage has been mind blowing in a positive way, and some days not easy by any stretch.
I have no doubt our time will come to jump in, and no doubt we'll be ready when that day occurs. The journey in getting there has been fun, rewarding and priceless for our relationship. In the meantime, I'll continue to lurk and learn
