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river248 · 02-11-2003, 06:23 AM

I'm the woman in this couple and I have no problem with weight, I would rather like the person. Mike, my guy, could care less about the like, just wants sexy. That to me is a matter of attitude. We disagree when looking through the personals, but agree to disagree, and if we both don't agree it isn't going to happen.

That said, I do have my prejudice so I'm really no better than others. The personals can't say, no fat people, and I'm not fat so to speak at 5'7 to 5'8 and 125 lb. but when I read that my mind goes crazy and I feel that anyone who would state such a thing isn't going anywhere right now spiritually (if that is the right word, and I do not mean God). I just feel that they haven't really explored the reality of life yet! And I will not even consider a 21 year old. I think your asking for problems there emotionally. Don't understand it when they say into a committed relationship and looking to explore. They haven't begun to explore and will probably have a lot more committed relationships in the future.

As for my guy, he has a problem with women squirters. For some reason he is turned off. Go figure, I find it fascinating as I have never had the experience, but also wonder how in the world he is going to find this out before the actual sex act; LOL.

Anyhow, we all have them, what we will and will not do.

I understand you being self conscious about the weight and feel limited by it, but don't. Those who do not wish to play with you and yours just aren't for you, and I would look at it this way, trying to be spiritual and all, their loss not yours.

As far as the small sized penis. I once had a relationship with a man who honestly had 2 inches and it was great. That man was self conscious about it, so in his mind he made up for it with candles everywhere, rose petals on the bed, and he even went so far as to have the bathroom fixed up with all brand new women's necessities that he thought I might like to clean up with afterwards; new hairbrush and comb, tooth brush and even perfume. He also lasted incredibly long and when I commented on this, he confessed that he had masturbated before I got there so as to not disappoint me with a quickie. His size never was an issue, his kindness and consideration will always be looked upon as wonderful.

Arleen (and Mike)

02-11-2003, 06:23 AM	#10 (permalink)
river248 Active Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 20 Location: Avonmore, PA Status: Couple	prejudice I'm the woman in this couple and I have no problem with weight, I would rather like the person. Mike, my guy, could care less about the like, just wants sexy. That to me is a matter of attitude. We disagree when looking through the personals, but agree to disagree, and if we both don't agree it isn't going to happen. That said, I do have my prejudice so I'm really no better than others. The personals can't say, no fat people, and I'm not fat so to speak at 5'7 to 5'8 and 125 lb. but when I read that my mind goes crazy and I feel that anyone who would state such a thing isn't going anywhere right now spiritually (if that is the right word, and I do not mean God). I just feel that they haven't really explored the reality of life yet! And I will not even consider a 21 year old. I think your asking for problems there emotionally. Don't understand it when they say into a committed relationship and looking to explore. They haven't begun to explore and will probably have a lot more committed relationships in the future. As for my guy, he has a problem with women squirters. For some reason he is turned off. Go figure, I find it fascinating as I have never had the experience, but also wonder how in the world he is going to find this out before the actual sex act; LOL. Anyhow, we all have them, what we will and will not do. I understand you being self conscious about the weight and feel limited by it, but don't. Those who do not wish to play with you and yours just aren't for you, and I would look at it this way, trying to be spiritual and all, their loss not yours. As far as the small sized penis. I once had a relationship with a man who honestly had 2 inches and it was great. That man was self conscious about it, so in his mind he made up for it with candles everywhere, rose petals on the bed, and he even went so far as to have the bathroom fixed up with all brand new women's necessities that he thought I might like to clean up with afterwards; new hairbrush and comb, tooth brush and even perfume. He also lasted incredibly long and when I commented on this, he confessed that he had masturbated before I got there so as to not disappoint me with a quickie. His size never was an issue, his kindness and consideration will always be looked upon as wonderful. Arleen (and Mike)
	Last edited by river248; 02-11-2003 at 06:27 AM.