From a couple of recent polls, it is clear that a large percentage of participants on this board have not yet engaged in any swinging-type activities (whether that is soft swapping or full). We wonder what is the primary reason that you haven't taken the plung. You are only allowed to pick one. While you likely have more than one reason, we'd like to know which reason is the primary reason. So, you have to pick one. If you don't see your reason, please select other and post it in reply. Thanks!