The Swingers Board - View Single Post - The female of the other couple may have issues

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-31-2006, 01:35 PM

I have to agree with the others, no one is being used here. My biggest concern is whether or not she is really into the idea of swinging or if it's something her hubby is pushing her into. I would also be concerned at their apparent lack of communication (ie. him not getting a clue that something was wrong when both you and your wife picked up on it).

I would definately back off from swinging with them, keep things light and pressure free. If you really enjoy them as friends then keep them as that, as far as the swinging I probably wouldn't go beyond light flirting with them and let HER be the one to make the moves for anything more. And keep your eyes open for another couple that may be more compatible to you sexually.

You said that he asked if you guys were ok because it was YOUR first time. From what she said though, it was their first time as well, or am I wrong?

10-31-2006, 01:35 PM	#7 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Are we being used??? do we move on??? I have to agree with the others, no one is being used here. My biggest concern is whether or not she is really into the idea of swinging or if it's something her hubby is pushing her into. I would also be concerned at their apparent lack of communication (ie. him not getting a clue that something was wrong when both you and your wife picked up on it). I would definately back off from swinging with them, keep things light and pressure free. If you really enjoy them as friends then keep them as that, as far as the swinging I probably wouldn't go beyond light flirting with them and let HER be the one to make the moves for anything more. And keep your eyes open for another couple that may be more compatible to you sexually. You said that he asked if you guys were ok because it was YOUR first time. From what she said though, it was their first time as well, or am I wrong?