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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing But I guess in nearly all men, there's this deep emotional level where they still feel they might not measure up, no matter what they've got. |
This is so true, kind of like women are about breasts, I have yet to meet a woman who didn't think their was something that could be improved about their breasts, and although men don't talk about it as much, I think most guys wish there equipment was just a little different.
While I realize the lovely ladies of the Swingers board aren't specifically bashing the bigger endowed guys here. I would like to say, for the record, that not all bigger guys inflict pain. In fact, most larger endowed guys usually learn early on that their are certain positions that require a careful approach, and to be observant to the signs that they are going to far at all times. Then again, their are positions that larger endowed guys can do that others cannot, at least one of which is very pleasurable for most women. It also might be surprising to some to know that not penetrating deeply usually feels better to most guys with a longer penis than pounding away real deep. Banging the cervix isn't that pleasurable for the guy either, at least it isn't in my experience, (only one experience with that when I was about 18, for which I was chastised sufficiently to convince me not to repeat that again.)
In my experience their are some women who are looking for well endowed guys, but their is about an equal number of women who have had a bad experience or who are intimidated by the bigger guys and will avoid them. Then their are the majority who like a variety and are more concerned with how the guy uses what he has than the size of it. That is one of the great things about swinging, at some point a guy usually realizes that the women like him just fine the way he was made. For my part, I have yet to drop my drawers and have a woman run screaming from the room (knocks on wood). So, in the end, it's all good, most of the time.
