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Originally Posted by jimnjan You know how kids are? You ask them to clean their rooms, they don't do it. They go to neighbors and help their friend clean their room? I've been telling him size doesn't matter for years, and it took YOU to make him see that....I guess guys ARE like kids.... only listen to other people! LOL Thanks again Tybee!!! 
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Jan, I KNOW, you have no idea how well!
I'll tell another true story, and this time on Mr. Tybee. I know it's going to sound far-fetched, which is why I haven't told it so far, but it's true and I know you'll understand, because your husband is as thick-headed as my wonderful husband is, too.
Mr. Tybee, like just about all men, had insecurities about the size of his cock. He really
believed that he had a small one. I thought on this one subject, he must be certifiably insane. On some levels, I think that he still believes it sometimes, deep down. I did not get how he could even
think that. But over time, I figured out how it came to be.
Mr. Tybee is a "grower, not a shower". When it's totally flaccid, it's short enough to be in the category of small. I guess he looked at it flaccid more often than when it's been erect. In fact when I told him this, he agreed. When it's getting erect it grows like a monster, more than doubling in size.
During a particularly "nutty" time with him on this size issue, I suggested that I get it hard for him and measure it, to prove to him that it wasn't small. To my amazement, he didn't even know the size of it and had never measured it. I thought
all men put a measuring tape to it, at some point. Not him! He thought this was a cool idea, so we went at it. When he was fully hard, I measured his length (from base to tip) and his girth. He did not believe me, even after I showed him the tape! So, we kept going and I told him I'd measure it again. We did, two more times that night. The first two times, it measured 8" long and a girth of 5 and 3/4" around the head. The third time, it measured just a smidgen longer than 8" (about 8 and 1/8"), and about 5 and 7/8" around the head.
**lightbulb moment** It helped him a lot. In fact, we had a very hot night together that night.
Still, he has had his moments about his size and what others might think about it. I reinforce him every chance I get, though. He knows on an
intellectual level that it often takes some "work" to get him in me, he knows he hits bottom and he has to be careful, he knows that "certain things" are not even possible with us because of the size (we've tried -
no way). But I guess in nearly all men, there's this deep emotional level where they still feel they might not measure up, no matter what they've got.
Since we've been swinging, he
now sees that his cock is perfectly fine as he is, and he's not small. It's
other people's comments that have sunk in with him the most, more than anything I've said to him. Thank God for
other women, huh?