I don't know how many times we've seen profiles where there is a request that the penis of potential playmates must exceed ___ inches, or don't bother writing them. They only want a seriously big one.
I'm a tight woman married to a big man. I
love my man the way he is, he's wonderful and I wouldn't change a thing about him. However, there are some things I can't do with his because it's big. I can't get him all the way in my mouth unless he's totally flaccid. I love the idea of getting a hard cock all the way in my mouth down to the base. Smaller ones are fun to suck and fun in other ways, too. The g-spot isn't but an inch or so from the opening, so smallish cocks are
plenty. A smaller man can pound full-force and not hit my cervix and cause pain. (With my husband I have to be careful of that.) I actually enjoy cocks that are smaller than my husband's. Swinging is all about variety.
I like all sizes.
Many men feel inferior in the penis size department. Some will even say it, after we're in a situation and they've seen my husband's. It's such a shame that men are into that comparison game so much. This happened again, last night. Last night was the most extreme case I've run into, yet.
His wife was wonderful. She started with me, we spent a lot of time together, and then she wanted my husband in a serious way. I wanted her to have him in a serious way! Yowza, it was hot. Her husband was very skittish and was wandering in and out (it was a house party). We wouldn't proceed without his full knowledge and approval, if not his participation, so we had to run him down. When he finally got back in there and we asked if it was okay for my husband and her to proceed, he was fine with it...but he said he wouldn't be able to play with me. Meanwhile, he was
looking and acting like he wanted me badly, kissing me and fondling my breasts. He said the reason he couldn't do anything was that he "didn't have anything to offer me in that department". He meant that because I had a hung husband, he certainly couldn't do anything for me! So, we had a talk. He was fascinated and fully engrossed with my perky C's, so I used that as an analogy. (His wife had a very attention-getting set of natural DD's.) I said, "You
like my breasts, don't you?" He affirmed that he was crazy about them. It was a DUH statement on my part, he couldn't get his eyes, mouth or hands off of them. Then I said, "But mine are much smaller, not even
half the size of your wife's. But, you like mine a LOT." I saw a lightbulb go off. He really got what I was saying. I told him that all sizes are great, each has something very special and exciting to offer. We went on to have fun while Mr. Tybee and his wife were pounding away beside us. I got to suck a cock that fit into my mouth, and he was in heaven. He still wouldn't full swap, his performance/size anxieties run too deep, but afterward he told me that in their 2 years around the Lifestyle, I was the first woman he was able to be hard with. He had a wonderful time and I think that what I said to him mattered. So, maybe there's hope for him down the road. I feel sorry that his size comparison issue is so deep that he can't even perform or enjoy this Lifestyle they're in/around. His wife is
dying to see him having intercourse with another woman.
Is there anybody else like me that loves to play with a partner who has a smaller cock, even as a preference? I have never actually read in a profile, "seeking playmates with penises
less than ___ inches!" Maybe if more men heard this more often, they'd have fewer issues with it.